What to Expect as an Au Pair

What Skills or Experience Do I Need to be an Au Pair?

Stacks Image 105735

Why become and Au Pair?

Why become an Au Pair? There are many reasons why people want to be an Au Pair. For some, its a short period of work and life experience - a great opportunity to experience life in the UK, improve your English, meet new friends and see something of a new country. While some Au Pairs stay for the summer, many others stay for longer periods, of between six and twelve months. In particular, there is great demand for candidates who can commit to a 12 month match.

Au Pair Skills and Duties: Key Facts

Do I Need Experience?

It is not essential to have specific experience to become an Au Pair, although being able to demonstrate that you have spent time with children certainly helps. Of course, working towards a child care qualification is desirable but not essential. Although Au Pair work is simple, it can be challenging and varied.  But ultimately, it is very personally rewarding and improves on your professional development as an inidividual.

Cultural Exchange

Our key focus is to maintain the programme as a cultural exchange between a host family and an Au Pair. Au Pairs are not slave workers - it is a cultural exchange programme - but that doesn’t mean you will not be expected to help with the household duties!

Being Adaptable and Flexible

Au Pairs need to be adaptable,  and prepared to handle housework (such as dusting, ironing, vacuuming, tidying and preparing light meals for the children). On average, you could be expected to do household tasks for 1 - 2 hours a day  for five days a week.  Working styles required will depend very much on the  host family -  many will expect their Au Pair to fit into the family routine very quickly, or be able to take the initiative in caring for the children.


The main role of an Au Pair is, however, caring for children. So you need to be comfortable with the role of a supporter and carer of children. Families need to feel assured that their Au Pair can be trusted with their children - to be responsible and caring. It may  take sometime for children to warm to a new Au Pair, but in most cases, the Au Pair becomes the best new friend. If you like spending time with children,  it can be very rewarding. Everyday tasks, from drawing, playing, walking to the park, cycling or baking cakes, can be a lot of fun.


Parents put a lot of trust in Au Pairs. If in turn the Au Pair makes a genuine effort to fit in with the family, and develop a caring relationship with the children, in our experience, they become more like another member of the family than an “employee”.

Register to be an Au Pair

Find me an Au Pair

Do you have questions?

Call us on 01342 776151